Permission Granted: Show Up Whole/in Dan's Blog, Values, Wisdom /by dan
Grief is a courageous example and one that I have become close to over the past two years. We’ve just experienced a super exhausting, more than two-year, slow burn toward the inevitable transition with our dear Olive. Her process shifted my focus, changed my perspective, deepened my learning, called forth tremendous amounts of servitude, patience, love, and… well, a whole lot more. We needed to make the ultimate choice for her and helped her onward just over a week ago.
Life Happens – Unexpectedly During a Pandemic Sponsored Self-Imposed-Lock-down/0 Comments/in Dan's Blog, Perspectives, Values /by dan
When something is bothering her, she tells us. When she’s scared she comes to us and let’s us know. When she makes a mistake she apologizes. When she wants love or reassurance she knows how to ask for it. When she wants to be alone because she needs quiet, or she needs to process something, she finds a quiet spot to do that.
The Tree/0 Comments/in Dan's Blog, Perspectives /by dan
Look, me and baboons simply don’t need to be occupying the same space. Figuratively or literally. If you know me well enough you may have heard me tell real-life stories of my own encounters with them in Cape Town and outside of Johannesburg. I sure as hell don’t want them in my head wreaking havoc. If I search these memories deeply enough I can still hear my NYC burrough, O.G. Jewish Grandma yelling at my sister and I to quit screaming about baboons on the roof from the backseat of the 1972 era Ford. Ah yes. Good times.
Curiosity Out There/0 Comments/in Dan's Blog, Fulfillment /by dan
Somewhere out on the horizon, down a rediscovered backcountry trail, the sun is rising over a campsite. A rooftop tent splays out from the top of an off-grid trailer pulled behind a well-equipped overland vehicle. Out here it’s quiet with occasional noises created by what is meant to be here. Leaves and twigs that rustle, creak and crack in the wind above and sometimes may crunch under the cautious feet of passing wildlife on the floor below.
A View and a Path/0 Comments/in Dan's Blog, Values /by dan
Standing at the kitchen sink early this morning, I twiddled the blind open and looked outside. I noticed how inside I was in that moment and how just beyond there was outside. I paused before beginning to wash a few dishes. I settled my stance more firmly onto the floor. Quickly I took a moment to notice more. What did this shift in my stance feel like? Was my head looking downward or up and outward? Was I consciously, now practicing, “presencing?”
A Co-Active Law Enforcement Program/in Co-Active, Fulfillment, Law Enforcement, Leadership, Perspectives, Values, Wisdom /by dan
This is a resource where LEOs have the opportunity to experience and develop true leadership through experiential learning and reconnect with their own clarity, purpose and fulfillment in their important roles in the communities they serve.
At the Core/0 Comments/in Co-Active, Fulfillment, Leadership, Values, Wisdom /by dan
A funny thing happened on my way to the ranch. Something that I did not expect. A path that felt like I was circling around something I had long been disconnected from and almost did not recognize.
You’ve Stepped in to Your New Business, Are You Stuck?/in Co-Active, Dan's Blog, Fulfillment, Perspectives, Values, Wisdom /by dan
So here you are. What choices become available to you and how does the world open up when you understand that you have conscious choice accessible to you?
What’s Brave?/in Co-Active, Dan's Blog, Fulfillment, Perspectives, Values /by dan
I realized that I could do and be better. I could reach for more and then WHAM! I would slam into this block that I could really seriously feel in my mind. I could not see my way around this block. I doubted myself and my abilities.